
There's nothing like hearing that from your kid, especially when they say it during a fit of rage brought on by something you've already identified as a stressor. And it's even better when it comes less than an hour before your company arrives.
OK, logically I know (or think I know) that she doesn't really think I don't like her. Logically I also know that this fit was probably brought on because she was tired, hungry, and wanting my attention, which was diverted last night to prep for my guests. Still, to go from zero to maniac in seconds is just crazy!
I honestly don't understand the refusal of common, well liked foods. I don't understand the seemingly unending tantrums over what's being served for dinner. I don't know how to subside this kind of reaction.
She'll hopefully be happier tonight when I make nuggets and tater tots. And I will have my full attention to provide the kids. That is probably the key, attention. If that's the case, I think Ethel needs a good dose of "suck it up, kid". If not, then I really hope our doctor appointment later this month gives us some clues.
Good luck, Mom! I'm thinking of you. I know this must not be easy.
ReplyDeleteH has loud, intense tantrums about "small" things and then goes back to being a sweet, loving child within minutes. It's so hard not to give in when you know that will quiet them down and restore peace. Hang in there. If this continues we can set our kids up for a playdate. H will buy Ethel dinner while you and I sit at a nearby table and drink wine.
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